I have heard of this event and really want to do this race. I hear that you can do this in teams of two or even 3. Could be fun!
5.01.2009
4.09.2009
3.24.2009
Maddox at 10.5 months learning to walk.
Had no idea this truck was gonna come in so handy but check him out. Look at that boy goooo!!!!!
Tour of California, 1 of 2
pics that I got of yes, Lance Armstrong. We had a great time and it was awesome to see so many people out supporting such a great sport.Some of the other notable sights were a motorcyclist that rides around a professional cycling photographer. So, we all know that I am a fan of anything with 2 wheels and I decided to ask this guy standing by the motorcycles some questions about riding with the pack, how it works such as hierarchy, etc. In an Australian accent, he began to explain how complicated it is and I took a glance at his name badge and it said "Walt Conte". I was like holy mole!!!! I pulled out my id and showed him my last name. As you can see from the pic to the right, we do look a bit similar. hahaha. What a small world I tell you. Anyway it was an awesome time. I will post again with all of the pics that I took there and ones especially of Lance.
3.20.2009
3.16.2009
An update for all of you
I have not posted in a bit and it is due to a TON of things. I have been busy with work, training and of course family. Maddox has been doing well and got some new teeth and more hair than ever before. I am glad that his hair is turning somehwat dark as now I can claim him as my own. LOL. We have done a lot of things here lately and I will be making separate posts regarding all of those events later. For now, enjoy this video of Maddox trying to say "Uh oh". He cannot pronounce the "Uh" so instead, he coughs and then adds the "oooooooohhhhhh" at the end. Pretty funny.
1.14.2009
12.27.2008
2008 in review
There are a lot of things to be grateful for this year but as I mentioned earlier, my friends and family are truly the greatest. I would like to thank the Gaufins personally for being there in a time when we really needed them. Frank and Brenda I really cannot say enough about the two of you. The love we share for my son and your willingness to be there for us has been truly outstanding. I would like to say you are appreciated and even though despite our differences we do share our love for one another. Thank you for being so great. U are appreciated.
Friends are also a great part of our existence and I would like to point out someone special to me. David W. Dave and I grew up with one another and I would like to say that although we have drifted apart, he really still does mean the world to me. He and his wife Megan just gave birth to their 4th child and I wanted to say congratulations! For Dave, although we might not talk as much as we should, I really do miss you and look back at the times we spent together as kids and would not of done it with anyone else. Thanks for being such a great friend. Congrats to you and all of your success!
We stayed here at home for the holidays this year. We threw the Thanksgiving gig here for our family and friends. We threw such a shindig that we had 16 people over. It was a great time but a lot of work. We were so burned out this year that we even considered not getting a Christmas tree. In the end, we decided we would but just not put up all of the decorations. So, this is what we did.
Some of the highlights of 2008 for us were Barack Obama, Thaidra's Graduation, the birth of our son, Me working from home now, connecting with family and some lost friends and progressing in our careers. Well folks, that's going to be a wrap. I will post some more pictures here shortly. Thanks for reading.
11.14.2008
David Goggins, the definition of mind over matter...
All, this guy is truely amazing. Please take the time to watch this video, you may be inspired. I understand where he is coming from. His website also has a great video as well.
http://www.the100mileman.com/davidgoggins/
11.13.2008
11.06.2008
Barack Hussein Obama just proved to the world that the United States is where change can really happen.
11.03.2008
Sarah Palin Prank Phone Call -
This is great. Two radio DJ's from Montreal call her up and pretend to be the French President. She actually thinks that Nicolas Sarkozy really called her. Hilarious. She has no idea. Unbelievable at the same time.
10.31.2008
How can you be adverse to change? It's 2008!
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On another note I will be posting some pics of Maddox soon per the request of Grammy. | ||
9.20.2008
9.08.2008
9.07.2008
My brother hanging out with Flavor Flav in Vegas
So...for those of you who do not know who this guy is let me explain. During the 80's my brother, friends and I were into hip hop and a show called Yo MTV Raps. This was a show that was on for 30 minutes a day that covered the new videos and songs that were done by rap artists. At the time, this was the premier show on MTV. Secondly, my brother was a DJ and I was always surrounded by music. Either way, this photo is historic for my brother. The clock is a symbol for flavor as he saws that he always knows "what time it is". Just typing this makes me laugh. I am really happy that my brother had a chance to take a picture with Flavor. I know that it truly was a great moment for him as we have always liked him since his days with the group Public Enemy. If you get a chance, Google the group Pubic Enemy. They are one of the original hip hop groups of all time.Yeaaaaaaaahhh Boyeeeeeeeeee!
9.05.2008
Bored on a Friday night and I cannot sleep...watching Letterman
Well, it was somewhat a busy week. I recently just had the end of quarter for work and I think I did well. Although all of the final numbers are not in, I think that I did good. I am now getting ready for the 4th quarter and I just have 90 days left until the year is over. For those of you that are not aware, the year ends for me in November with is great. It gives me the month of december to recharge my batteries and to get ready for the year. Some of you are aware, but I am trying to win a trip to Marbella, Spain. It should be a good time.
Maddox is still growing like a weed and as I sit here and type he is sitting next to me as his mom feeds him. He is getting longer and making all different kinds of noises now. Nothing much really going on around this topic other than he still smiles all the time and looks like has not a care in the world. He is just so comfortable all the time. Mona has managed to be on the bed all night these days and I think its TLC 's way of making sure that she still feels like #1 to us
As I sit here watching David Letterman, he makes me laugh. On another note, I just saw a show that said Mccain's wife's outfit that she work for his acceptance speech was worth approximately $313,000.00. The earings alone were 3 karat diamonds. LOL. They compared this amount of money to the $900.00 dollar dress that Michelle Obama worse during Barak's acceptance speech. Where am I going with this? Well, I guess I am just really trying to figure out how Mccain and the hockey mom from a Alaska can relate to most americans.
I created a facebook www.facebook.com account about a month ago and I have managed to meet alot of old friends on there. Its a great way to connect and catchup with people that you used to have in your daily lives. Geez, time really flies. Most of my friends have had kids and really have gone off in their own direction. Like either moving to New York, Boston, Florida, etc. Some of them have remained the same and others have done something completely different. One particular guy I found this week I have been looking for awhile. He got an academic scholoarship to Stanford and was a high school all american in football as well. Turns out he lives in DC and he has an 8 month old. Him and I are going to chat, but I am glad we finally connected.
Finally, I just switched to ATT cable and my phone is not set up yet. If you are calling the house and getting the busy signal this is the reason. This will be resolved in the next couple of days,
Football is back!!!!!!!! Yeah!!!!!!!!!! I am so excited for the season to be here. With the Padres not being competitive (nice way to say they suck). I think we have a really good chance of going to the big game this year. We will see how it goes. I am currently in 3 footballs pools as well, so every, I mean every game means something. Anyway, I am going riding earlty in the morning so I gotta run. Oh, by the way, I got a new tattoo as wel. If you want to see it, send me an email.
9.03.2008
I saw this and could not stop laughing..Enjoy
Bringing Down the Bounce House - Watch more free videos
9.01.2008
Barack Obama's Full Speech to the DNC
Not to be political but what the heck. Having majored in political science and minored in philosophy, I like to dig into the issues at times.
Although I will not disclose my political affiliation, I will tell you that Taunya and I were glued to the tube for all of the DNC. We really looked forward to hearing what Barak was going to say. When we saw it, we were completely floored. What a story of this young man who defied the odds to turn out to be someone truly special. This is the underdog. This is the story that we all watch in movies and in the theater(s) and root for in the end. It was this history in the making and we were thrilled to be apart of it. I thought he did a good job of addressing the issues that we Americans face everyday.
Not only does he speak with conviction, passion and presence. He is you and he is me. We have all been in his spot at one point in our life. For some, the road was a bit more windy and for some it was much longer than expected. No matter which, you stayed the course. You did and that is what helped you get to where you are today. Look back and ask yourself if you are one of those who were handed something or if you were one of those who had to work for every bit of it. If you were, then the choice is clear.
We will be glued to the tube when the RNC is on as it will be interesting to see how the 2 year governor from Alaska and the veteran with 13 houses can help us see the benefits of the last 8 years.
8.30.2008
8.13.2008
Lots going on around here now...
Maddox has been growing by the hour it seems. He is always kooo'ing and looking around at things. Taunya does the drop off in the mornings and I do the pickups. When I pick him up I put him the the jog stroller and cruise him around the neighborhood for about an hour. He likes it and I really enjoy this time.
8.07.2008
Okay, okay...he looks like me
7.08.2008
Intense clip from the movie "Behind Enemy Lines"...
I just bought this movie off of itunes and think this part is one of the best scenes of the movie. The graphics are amazing and so is the camera work of the aerobatics of the FA-18 Hornet trying to get away. Great movie if you like action and drama films.
7.03.2008
Latest addition...iPod Classic 160GB

6.24.2008
6.22.2008
Bee to the lip at 22 mph, San Francisco, Washington D.C , TLC and I hit the road
Anyway, so last week I went in on a ride the day before I headed to a conference in Washington, DC. I was going about 22 mph and saw this little black thing coming at me. As it got closer, It was clear to me, its a bee. I tried to close my mouth but too late. The Bee hit my lip and then started to go into my mouth. In a panic, I began to spit and with a finger knocked him out of my mouth. Then I thought hmmmm, that is not bad.....ummmm hold on...what is that? Oh, its my lip killing me because he stinger is still stuck in it. I pulled over slowly skidding and with no mirror, pulled the stinger out of my lip. At this point, my lip began swelling like I just took a good shot in a street fight. I had about only 14 miles on the odometer, so I decided to finish out the remaining 16 miles and then head for home. After the 30 or so miles I got home and Taunya was staring at me and could not figure out what happened. Of course, she looks at me and says "Did you get in a fight on your bike?". I started to laugh and told her what had happened. I asked her to take a picture of it for me so you could experience it like I did. Well almost.
DC was good. Went by the white house on the way to the trade show called "CF United". Google it and you can find out more about the conference if you would like. Basically a developer conference for ColdFusion users and Adobe was on of the key sponsors. The weather was nice and I was happy to be home.
The latest heatwave of the past 3 days has been pretty bad. I went riding yesterday and managed to log about 64 miles before I broke another spoke on my other bike. I dropped that one off at the shop and rode my tri bike with TLC today and had a great time. My mom came over and watched Maddox for a couple of hours so we could hit the road. Taunya did well given the fact that it was in the high 80's and she has not really riden since before the baby. Boy it was hot though.
Maddox is getting better, developing and looking more and more like his mom everyday. He is such a joy to watch, hold, change and be with. Let it be known, that is it sits right now, the kid has blue eyes and fair skin with light brown/blondish hair. The skin is fair, but nowhere near mine. I basically put out a kid that has my face but with no single trait that looks like me. I am really happy that he is healthy, but I mean honestly, the kid is white. Nothing wrong with that as you all know.
As some of you read this you might think what is wrong with this guy? Well nothing, but I thought I would of at least gotten the eyes, hair or the skin even. Nada. We will see how things go. When I mention this to Taunya, Grandma Gaufin and others, they just tell me that they still could change and they laugh. Well news on the front too. His eyes went from dark blue to light blue. I mean at baseball games, soccer, etc. When I yell, "Nice job Maddox", people are going to whisper "is that his dad?" to other parents. The others are going to whisper back "Yeah, funny huh? He looks nothing like him"
I am THAT guy. I will be posting another youtube video of Maddox from this weekend shortly.
6.07.2008
Michael Jackson - Billie Jean Motown 25 Live, March 25 1983
So...I realize that I am going to get inundated with emails or comments for posting this video but I realized that many of you may of never seen this.
The other night we were feeding MAC and I was showing Taunya some of the videos and music that I have downloaded and collected over the years. It was at that point that she mentioned she had "never" seen the "beat it" video from Michael Jackson. I was like "Huh?". So I showed it to her and she could not believe it.
In light of all of this guys scandals and issues, this performance was one that I watched live as a 10 year old kid. While watching this, I was completely floored and starstruck. I could not believe that anyone could dance and sing like he could. At that time, he was truly a superstar. If you have not seen this piece of music history, take the 5 minutes and watch it. It makes you wonder what really happened to the guy that seemed to have it together and so much going in his direction.
Some things to note. 47 million people watched this performance, he debuted "the moonwalk", this song alone has been sold over 5 million times.
5.27.2008
5.21.2008
103 Miles, 8800 feet elevation, 96 degrees in 7 Hours & 19 minutes
Training-
How much does one train for something like this? I was doing about 100 miles a week on the bike and that was about it. Should I have of trained more? Yes, but race days for me seem to make me pull out the 6th gear for some reason. Ideally, I would of like to have of logged about 1 good 80 mile ride in before, but I just could not fit it in the schedule. Between the swim and run training, there was just not enough time.
Conditions-
The day of the race was set to be unseasonably hot. I do well in the heat, but I have not trained in the heat at all lately. Primarily because we have had some May gray type of conditions here in San Diego lately. Nevertheless, I did know what do pack in terms of nutrition and hydration from doing Ironman so I felt comfortable there. However, this course was one that started from the coast and went to the foothills and back. I knew that it was going to be in the 80's by 9am so I wanted to start the race as soon as possible. I was hoping to be out of the foothills/mountains before it hit the high 90's. This was not the case however. There were A LOT of hills and a majority of them were in the foothills/mountains where it was supposed to be the hottest. There were AID stations throughout the ride and I stopped at all 7 of them to hydrate. No water, just all electrolyte drinks.
The Race-
The race had a window from 6-8am. You could start the race anytime between then. They would have the roads blocked off at least for a couple of hours. Given how hot it was going to be I was there at 5:45 am trying to be one of the first out of the gate to get started. When I arrived, I said to myself, "Its kinda warm now". So I took off at 6am and started the ride and it was evident that I was not the only one with this idea. There were a bunch of cycling teams out and my plan was to draft or find a peloton to ride with to save me some time and energy. I did just that and heard that Floyd Landis was riding the course as well. He lives in the area, so it was not uncommon to see him out on the ride. If you do not know who he is, its worth Googling him.
I rode the first 40 feeling strong. I rode with a team called "Red Burro Racing" from Las Vegas and managed to take advantage of riding with the group. They were FAST. On some of the downhills we were going over 50 mph and within a couple of feet of each other. Some of the riders ahead of me hit a snake crossing the road and I could see them running it over as we flew down this hill. Thank the lord that nobody freaked out and decided to turn, otherwise we would of all of been in bad shape. It was fun. After riding with them, I moved on to another couple of groups and really began to start to feel the heat. It was at about 60 miles when I thought I might of bit off a bit more than I could chew. It was at this time when I was doing the biggest climb and it was close to 90 degrees as I was heading into the foothills of Ramona. Instead of quitting, I was thinking, you are fine, ride your race and push it a little harder. So I did. I was drinking Gatorade and http://www.nuun.com/ tablets trying to stay hydrated every 10 minutes.
I finally got inland and it was better but I ran out of fluids for about 20 minutes before I could get to the next AID station. I was getting worried as the conditions we so bad, that 20 minutes could really be the difference between a good race and "bonking" or cramping out due to being dehydrated. I finally made it and sat there for about 25 minutes drinking, eating gels and doing more drinking. I started the remaining 35 or so miles back to the coast and and started to feel better but the sun was still unbearable. I still just kept pedaling as I saw others stopped along the sides of the road as I rode past.
I made it to the next AID station with 22 miles left and I started to feel better already. The hydration was paying off and I had a tiny cramp here and there, but that was it. I pressed on and finally made it back to the coast and headed toward the finish. I finished in the above time even with all of the stops in 7 hours and 19 minutes. I was impressed with my time given the conditions. You know its hot when people are staring at you from their cars with the look "are you nuts?".
Will I do it again? Yes. It was a beautiful ride and I honestly really enjoyed it. It was my second real bike race, but I enjoyed it. As a matter of fact, I will be doing another one in October in Poway. http://www.tourdepoway.com/
Some interesting stats for you;
- Total Time- 7:19:23
- Calories burned- 7216
- Ounces consumed- 240
5.12.2008
4.28.2008
4.25.2008
Maddox Anthony Conte has arrived @ 5:33 am this morning
Most of you have recieved a text from me at this point stating that we were on our way to the hospital last night. What an experience is all I can really say. We left the house last night at 11pm and stayed awake all night until the guy arrived this morning.
He is an interesting little guy weighing in at 7.5 lbs and 20 inches long. He keeps his eyes open alot and looks like a burrito all wrapped up. We delivered at Sharp Mary Birch, Hospital. We had a great team of nurses and doctors. Everything went well and all of us are doing great. Taunya really did well and the doctor told us that we could be going home as soon as tomorrow. We are really excited about that so we can get started on building our routine around this guy.
We are going to be adjusting so if we do not return the calls right away please be patient. I will be posting pictures later today!
4.20.2008
60 minutes- Taliban vs. Green Berets
4.19.2008
The Simple Life
- Hot coffee in the morning
- Long talks with the wife.
- Seeing the smile on my wife's face when she rides her bike.
- Waking up early when its still dark outside.
- The rain
- Accidentally falling asleep(wink wink).
- Feeling exhausted after a intense swim, bike or run.
- Being home with my dogs Mona & Truman.
- PS3
- Reading, yes I said reading.
- Ice cold beer while BBQ'ing.
- Sushi
- Friends like Katie & Chris, Jeff, Craig, Dave and Tim.
- Reconnecting with old friends.
- Quiet mornings.
- Watching my sister and nephew interact.
- Open minds.
- Trying new foods.
- Changing my opinion.
4.18.2008
More baby news- We have a date...
4.14.2008
Baby News!
4.08.2008
Tick tock, tick tock, ko koo, ko koo...
- Swim-Took in 4 mouthfuls of San Diego Bay. It was windy causing some chops in the bay.
- Bike-26 miles, I think I did it just under an hour. If I averaged 26mph that would be impressive. I will wait to see my split times.
- Run-Just trying to hang on. The first 1.25 miles was on beach sand. Brutal.
- Run-Ran with a 69 year old guy for awhile. Cool dude. Really nice guy.
- This race is called the Superfrog/Superseal Triathlon. Its done in Coronado and on the NSW(Naval Special Warfare) base where all of the SEALS train.
- My heat was with the military and I was running and swimming with some 20 year olds with 2 percent body fat, that were navy seals. Alot of them passed me on the run needless to say.
- Finally, I did the whole race without stopping and walking at all. I was proud of that fact. With the exception of the Ironman, I have never stopped or walked in a race. I am proud of that fact.
3.23.2008
Justin Timberlake cracks me up
Happy Easter! Vegas, Boston, Tampa, baby news and my 1st bike race
3.21.2008
New site with great video technology
I just thought I would pass this video on. The skit is funny but one thing that you should note is the quality of the video. Its better than HD. Pretty funny stuff out of this guy. If you have not seen the movie "Superbad", I would reccomend it. It's hilarious. You can find alot of these videos at http://www.hulu.com/ . More updates about the baby and the last 3 weeks later.
3.02.2008
45 days of a new diet...I am sticking to it
- The baby is coming and I want to make sure that I am in good health. Not that I am not in good health now, but there is always room for improvement when it comes to making food choices.
- I wanted to help Taunya out more and start cooking more. With the baby coming and all, I wanted to give her one less thing do to. Plus with me cooking more it forces me to learn how to make more vegetarian choices.
- Race schedule. Triathlon season starts this month. I am curious to see how I will do making the switch. After 45 days into it, I am slimming down already.
- Why not? I started this thing saying to myself lets be realistic right? So I began doing it slowly. When going out to dinner or lunch, I started just ordering the vegetarian option. For example, at work they ordered food for us due to an all day meeting. I ordered the veggie sandwich. When I got it, I thought it was the best thing I had ever had. I must admit, I was leery about the whole thing but I just went for it.
- It's a great long term health plan!
2.14.2008
Zen Habits- Great little blog with a ton of great topics
Top 10 Productivity Hacks - Overview

We all need a productivity boost now and then — sometimes throughout the day. We each want to be productive for very personal reasons — to accomplish more, to make more money, to get done earlier to make more time for our personal lives, to accomplish our goals. But whatever the reason, these Productivity Hacks will do the trick.
Here they are, in reverse order (click on links for more on each):
#10: Take care of your Most Important Things first. Your Most Important Things for the day — the things you most need to accomplish that day — should take priority over everything else. However, we all know that fires come up throughout the day, interruptions through phone calls and email and people dropping by, new demands that will push the best-laid plans aside. If you put off your MITs until later in the day, you will end up not doing them much of the time.
Try to get all three of your MITs done before moving on to anything else. If you can do that, the rest of the day is gravy!
# 9: Wake up early. Decide what you’d like to accomplish each morning, and build your morning routine around that. Like to exercise? Put that in there. Healthy breakfast? Go for it. Check email? Fine. The mornings are a fresh start, peaceful and free of ringing phones and constant email notifications. If you get your Most Important Things done in the morning, the rest of the day is just gravy. (see How I Became an Early Riser.)
# 8: Simplify information streams, crank through blogs & email. Think about all the information you receive (email, blogs, newsletters, mailing lists, magazines, newspapers and more) and edit brutally. You will drastically reduce the time you spend reading. For everything else that begins to come in after your editing process, ask yourself if you really need to be getting that information regularly. Most of the time the answer is no. Now, after this process, you should be left with less to read. Here’s the next step: crank through it all, really only reading the really interesting ones.
Editing and cranking through the information you receive can free up a lot of time for more important things — like achieving your goals.
# 7: Declutter your workspace; work on one thing at a time. The decluttering your work space part of it is simply to remove all extra distractions, on your desk and on your computer. If you’ve got a clean, simplified workspace, you can better focus on the task at hand. (See more on how to do this.)
Now, with distractions minimized, focus on the task at hand. Don’t check email, don’t work on five projects at once, don’t check the stats on your blog, don’t go to your feed reader. Work on that one task, and work on it with concentrated focus until you are done. (See How NOT to Multi-task.) Then celebrate your achievement!
# 6: Get to work early; work fewer hours. My best days come when I get into work early, and begin my work day in the quiet morning hours, before the phones start ringing and the din of the office begins it crescendo to chaos. It is so peaceful, and I can work without interruption or losing focus. I often find that I get my MITs done before anyone comes in, and then the rest of the day is dealing with whatever comes up (or even better: getting ahead for the next day).
Added bonus: you skip rush-hour traffic.
But just as productive is the second part of the tip: leave early and work fewer hours. It’s paradoxical, but if you work fewer hours, and know that your time is limited, you will be more focused. Then you have more hours to yourself! Everyone wins.
# 5: Avoid meetings; when you must meet, make it effective. I find it best to say no to meetings up front. I just say, “Sorry, I can’t make it. I’m tied up with a project right now.” And that’s always true. I’ve always got projects I’m working on that are more important than a meeting.
Now, you probably won’t be able to get out of most meetings, so here are some tips for making meetings more effective.
# 4: Avoid unnecessary work. If we just do any work that comes our way, we can be cranking out the tasks, but not be productive at all. You’re only productive if you are doing work that moves you towards a goal. Eliminate non-essential tasks from your to-do lists, and start to say no to new requests that are non-essential.
If you do not take these steps and speak up, and say no, then you will be overloaded with work that you simply do not need to do. Cut out the non-essential tasks, and focus on those that really matter.
# 3: Do the tough tasks first. You know what those tasks are. What have you been putting off that you know you need to do? Sometimes when you put things off, they end up being things you don’t really need to do. But sometimes they are things you just gotta do. Those are your tough tasks.
Do them first thing in the day.
# 2: Work off-line as much as possible. To increase your productivity, disconnect your Internet connection. Have scheduled times when you’re going to check your email, and only let yourself check your blogs or surf the web when you’ve gotten a certain amount done. When you do go online, do it on a timer. When the timer goes off, unplug again until the next scheduled time.
You’ll be amazed at how much work you’ll get done.
# 1: Do something you’re passionate about. This might not seem like the normal productivity tip, but give it a thought: if you really want to do something, you’ll work like hell to get it done. You’ll work extra hard, you’ll put in even more hours, and you’re less likely to procrastinate. It’s for work that you don’t really care about that you procrastinate. Read the full post for tips on how to find your dream job and do work you truly care about.
Raise your hand if you know or have been affected by one of these.
Workaholic
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Colloquially, a workaholic is a person who is addicted to work. This phrase does not always imply that the person actually enjoys their work, but rather simply feels compelled to do it. There is no generally accepted medical definition of such a condition, although some forms of stress, obsessive-compulsive personality disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder can be work-related. Although the term "workaholic" usually has a negative connotation, it is sometimes used by people wishing to express their devotion to one's career in positive terms. The "work" in question is usually associated with a paying job, but it may also refer to independent pursuits such as sports, music, art, or blogging.[citation needed]
A "workaholic" in the negative sense is popularly characterized by a neglect of family and other social relations. The term has no clinical definition, however.
Workaholism in Japan is considered a serious social problem leading to early death, often on the job, a phenomenon dubbed karōshi. Overwork was popularly blamed for the fatal stroke of Prime Minister of Japan Keizo Obuchi, in the year 2000.[1]
The word itself is a play on "alcoholic". The term was apparently coined by psychologist Richard I. Evans, currently distinguished professor of psychology at the University of Houston. Dr. Evans may have originated the term workaholic in an interview with him, published in the house publication for oil company Esso (now ExxonMobil), in the 1960's, and widely distributed throughout the world. In response to a question by the Esso interviewer regarding the concern by the corporation for workers who were often overworked, Evans replied that such individuals can almost be likened to alcoholics and might be described as "workaholics". James J. Kilpatrick, a nationally syndicated columnist, read the interview and referred to Evans and his creation of the term workaholic in his column, which Kirkpatrick described as a useful new term.[citation needed] [2] (Evans' coinage also prompted the widespread use of the -holism suffix for popular compulsions). It should be noted that "workaholic" is often also attributed to psychologist Wayne Oates because of his 1971 book, "Confessions of a Workaholic." It gained more widespread use in the 1990s, as the result of a wave of the self-help movement that centered on addiction, forming an analogy between harmful social behaviors such as over-work and drug addiction, including addiction to alcohol. Although "workaholic" is not an official medical or psychological term, it remains in widespread usage to refer to those whose expenditure of time on work and work-related issues leads to the detriment of their bodily health, social lives, family and domestic life, or leisure time.
2.09.2008
Thanks to my friends, and a mystery Yelper..
2.07.2008
1.29.2008
Babies,kids and life.....enough already!
I know ALL of that, but would you please stop saying things like "You have no idea" or the infamous "Just wait and see". I mean come on. Seriously, have you not seen some of the parents out there?? Some of the train wrecks? If they can do it, why can't I?
I am soooooo tired of hearing all of your excuses for not being able to go outside or not being able to go to the bathroom. What really makes it worse is that even if you were right, do you think I would tell you anyway in order to validate your position? People are having babies in this world every couple of minutes. Most of them born to parents with no education, financial or family support. Those kids manage to make it thru life don't they?
I have ran into parents that tell me I will be just fine. I have had parents say some of the most reduculous things I have ever heard of as well. Things such as "are you going to get rid of your dogs now?". I mean what the hell kind of person kicks the dog out because they are now parents? PULL yourself together and act like a grown up. You do what you gotta do in order to survive.
Maybe that is what is wrong with generation X? They just don't know what hard work is? Maybe doing more than one thing at a time is just too much? My mother raised us 3 on one persons salary and we all turned out just fine. With Taunya's half marathons and my Ironman, don't we get a break? That's unless you all think that those are easy feats that you can just go do them after a hard night of drinking? Maybe the difference here is that we both have a better idea of what hard work really means and you all don't? I would certainly have to think that is a possibility right?
What is so funny is that I rarely how much fun it is from people about being parents. All I hear is the negative. I have heard a handful of times that it is worth it, you will enjoy it or they grow up so fast. Where is the upside in this? Why are we having kids? What are we doing? Was it a bad decision? Are we going to regret it?
Thanks everyone for being so positive and making us feel so great about this life altering decision we made about a year ago.
1.12.2008
A little update about what's going on around here
Anyway things around here have begun to change. We are getting ready for the baby and Taunya is getting bigger. We are excited and still have not decided what we are going to name him. I was considering using "Dominick" but we kind of want to give him his own identity. We have like 3 different name books and we are still stuck. Oh well, we have 4 more months. Taunya has picked the room colors and we are looking to do some remodeling here in the next couple of months before the baby gets here. Nothing too crazy, just floors and paint.
Work is going good for both her and I. Taunya's company (www.madcapsoftware.com) is doing pretty well and just moved to a new office in downtown la jolla. I have been to her new office and the colors and building are really cool. It is within walking distance of everything, I mean everything. Adobe is doing well and I have been traveling alot lately. I spent the 1st week of December in Boston and the second week in San Jose. Traveling is OK, but I would much rather be at home, in my own bed. I will be heading back to San Jose here come the end of the month for some more meetings and training.
The Chargers have been doing really well. I have been a season ticket holder for the last 4 years and been a charger fan for life. Although I have only had tickets for 4 years, I have been consistently been going to games for the past 6 years. I am excited to have had a winning team for the last couple of years. This will be the last year that I will have my tickets. With the baby coming and all, I really won't have the time to be able to spend 6 hours down at Qualcomm Stadium. The tailgate guys are pretty much going their own way come the end of the season anyway. With Tom's passing, things have never really been the same.
Any, that is it for now. Taunya is not up and we are heading to guess where? Costco. Oh the madness.










